The first, and still the only, GENUINE site for English speaking swingers in Spain

At the request of many of our members, we have spent the last month investigating the "new" swingers party scene that is coming about on the Costa del Sol  -  much of that thanks to this site!

When reading what follows, please bear in mind that this site is THE ONLY ENGLISH LANGUAGE SITE run by Swingers living on the Costas in Spain.  We have over 16 years of residency in Spain and are therefore, THE ONLY WEBMASTERS able to speak from a position of authority about the Costa swingers scene.

Many of our members have asked just what is genuine and what is not on the coast and we have had to investigate!  What a hardship!!  What follows is totally factual and should be considered as a "Bible" for other swingers on or visiting the Costa del Sol.

The Spanish Clubs and Bars, whilst so open in comparison with those in the UK, are generally to be avoided.  We have found over the years we have been here that the clientele is generally Spanish and unless you speak Spanish (as we do), you are unlikely to be accepted.  Further, it does seem that so many Spanish households are of three generations (Father/Mother, children and elderly parent) that the Spanish tend to attend clubs as a means of finding a venue for pre-conceived contacts, as opposed to a venue for meeting "other" swingers as their own home is "off bounds".  Respect  -  it is their country and these clubs and these ways existed long before any of us came here  -  who are we to change things?

There has been a sudden "upsurge" in the need for a Brits party scene here, mainly due to CostaSwing having been born and bringing into the open just how many ex-pat swingers there are on the coast.  The four main "players" on the Costa del Sol are as follows.............

 

This is the ONLY genuine swingers party house that we are aware of on the coast.  It is run by a German swinging couple, Melanie and Matthias, who both speak English and Spanish as well as their native German.  The Party house is rented for the SOLE purpose of holding Swingers Parties and the couple believe in the swingers scene to the extent that they are subsidising those attending.  We know for a fact that it take 20 couples attending to even bring in the rent for the venue, without considering the drink and food they provide which is a buffet royale and also forgetting the capital costs involved in making the venue party friendly!  The parties are very "laid back", there is absolutely no pressure on those attending and are parties that we are happy to put our name to.  In fact, we have had to attend three parties at the house (to make sure) before we considered putting such a strong endorsement to them.  As said previously, attending three parties has been a real hardship!!  UPDATE - September 4th 2006 - Matt and Mel have now extended their party schedule to include Friday nights when single guys are welcome to attend.  See their website for more details.

 

This is a bar that promises NO ON PREMISES action.  However, whilst no on-prmises action, you may find little gropes, or interaction, in the corner and it is totally Swinger Friendly.  It is being run by a Brit couple, Leah & Alec.  A couple originally from the Brighton area who had a big hand in helping to run the SkinnyDippers parties there.  Whilst the Bar is swinger friendly all week long, it is a normal bar open to the public along with all other bars in the Marbella Port area.  However, Friday night is Swingers Social night.  As already said, do not expect on-premises action, just a relaxed atmosphere to meet other swingers, chat about life on the coast, about the swinging scene generally and maybe fix a meet for another night.  We have met English, Spanish, Dutch and Scandinavian swingers on our visits.  Two lovely people running a bar for a living, but closing it one night a week to the Public, giving swingers the chance to meet and interact in a totally relaxed, no-pressure atmosphere.  Better still - after four hours, our bar bill (with no favours - we do not accept them!) was 23 Euros the first time and 26 Euros the second  -  proof that normal bar prices really do apply and the swingers nights are NOT run for profit but for the benefit of the swinging community.  Just a shame the lovely barmaid Kelly is not on the scene!  We understand that Saturday nights are now a "party" night - still no on premises action but totally swinger friendly.  Thos that care about the lifestyle should support Leah and Alec, who are determined to turn this venue 100% swingers orientated without concern for the loss of "normal" trade.

 

First of all, admission time, we have never been there!  However, we do know Pat and Ken personally from the local Nudist Beach and have enough knowledge of them as people to say that what they promise on their web site, they will deliver.  These are a couple that have "got away" from the strains of the Catering Industry in the UK and built themselves (and others in the swinging community) a piece of Paradise.  We have tasted some of Ken's cooking and can recommend that!  Not all weeks are swinger orientated at their "casa" but give them a call and we are sure you will find what you want!  We have received many positive reports of the casa.

 

Oh dear!!  We have had so many complaints about these parties, so much negative feed back and have personally had our own bad experiences with the hosts.  These parties are far from genuine.  We have received at least 20 complaints from members of this site about these parties and have also been personally subject to the poisoned tongue of host Vikki.  These parties are run as nothing more than a commercial, money making venture.  Not only money making but illegal, with no VAT paid from entrance fees, no tax on profits, no Social Security Payments, No Business Rates, No Licence to operate.  Using Vikki's own figures, with 25 couples attending (at 75 Euros per couple) plus 5 single males (at 125 Euros each) they take 2,600 Euros per party (held in their own home  with costs that do not exceed 3-400 Euros for food and drink!!).  We calculate a profit of 2,200 plus Euros per party  -  their figures, not ours!    We also have it on very good authority that the "single ladies" at the parties seek 100 Euros plus for each half hour.  We have received messages from Vikki about her swingers party BUSINESS.  Sorry, but we are not interested in people who set out to line their pockets from those following the "lifestyle".  We know that they claim that they had involvement in running parties in the UK although their own web site claims no more than they partied every week at SkinnyDippers  -  that level of involvement is confirmed by many other people who also partied there!  

We know for a fact that the local Resident's Association are gunning for her  -  something to do with running a "brothel" on the urbanisation. Previously there were reports about the parties on the resident associations site.  Many of these comments have now been removed as we understand that Denouncias (Police Reports) have been filed about the parties by local residents.  We actually have contacts within the Guardia Civil (The top level Police in Spain) in Mijas and have actually seen photos taken at the last party that took place, along with a list of registrations of cars (and their owners) parked outside the Villa coupled with photos of the occupants of the cars. The News of the World would be proud of those photos - and we do not condone their activities!  If attending a party at this Villa, do not be surprised if you are caught up in a Police/Guardia Raid.

From a personal point of view, and this is fact not third party reports, we were going to have attended a party at the house to provide an accurate review for members and then found that we were being accused of receiving payments "in shagging" to recommend genuine parties  -  despite the fact that our personal profile makes it very clear that we are only soft swingers  -  Vikki really does need to learn to read!!  Really Vikki, this is the kind of "bad mouthing" that has caused us to receive so many complaints about you and your parties.  Needless to say, we did not attend the party and in view of the expected action against the illegal events are not likely to!  All we can say is AVOID HUSH PARTIES at all costs if you value your reputation, sanity and privacy.  Whilst swingers parties in Spain are not illegal, attending commercial events where no "Abertura" (licences to operate) exist will result in quite a few hours in "the kennels" (three foot high cells) at Mijas Guardia Barracks for those found on the premises, a lot of questions and embarrassment - then becoming a statistic on the Spanish Police computer system.